Most of us girls dress more and more fem, to make us feel more sexy. Why nobody wants to talk about the realities of sex is beyond me. Well actually – obviously – it’s not! *Grin*
Quick points for new girls
Newer girls to the transgender lifestyle are often more promiscuous than more established trans-women due to the excitement they’re feeling over their new-found femininity. That’s natural.
Another issue along this same vein is confusing sincere friendship with sexual attraction. Lots of gals are peculiar about who does it for them sexually.
What to wear
Wondering what to wear when you’re planning on getting down and dirty? First off, regardless of how attached you might be to your little enhancers of hips and breasts, I’d suggest you give them a rest. Holding a girl who is padded to the gills is like caressing a linebacker – it feels less sexy to the touch. As much as you might look womanly – you’ll feel far less feminine to your partner.
Transgender – transgender intimate compatibility
The first key for a tg to find another girl they are sexually compatible with, is to look at themselves. I find this is the case with any relationship – but few of us do it. We all tend to do best with people most like us – both in personality & appearance.
I have found there to be various plateaus of attraction amongst tg’s.The first is typically smooth bodied vs unshaven.
Second, is breast enhancement.
Third, and perhaps most important, is the degree of experience and comfort one has with being transgendered.
Finally, is the emotional attraction one has with their potential lover – and how important this element is in their sexual satisfaction.
For me, this takes time. I am much more likely to enjoy sex the second time around than I am the first.
Getting down to business
As for actual tg/tg sex, there are a lot of options – just do the math! LOL Initially, I doubted that I needed to provide any detail on this matter. I figured most of you knew plenty about the sweet honey provided by the t-birds” & the “t-bees. ::))
I’ve found the longest lasting combination is when sexual roles are clearly defined by the nature of each girl’s personality. (i.e. top/bottom) However, this is not crucial. Two girls who know what they’re doing, will always find an equation for bliss. There are simply too many avenues for pleasure.
Safety
If you’re a t-girl looking for a little fun, I can’t preach enough about safety. First off, please, please, please don’t ever engage in sex with out condoms for protection. No amount of sexual excitement is worth dying over.Most importantly, never go off alone with someone you don’t know well, to a place where you could remotely be in trouble.
Case in point: In Atlanta, we had a nut case on the loose for several years who was preying on t-girls known only as Handcuff Man. This little jewel would buy a girl drinks, treat her like an angel, take her back to his place, drug her drink, handcuff her to a pipe, sexually mutilate her, then pour gasoline on her and take out his lighter. Four girls in Atlanta lost their lives to this creep and several others were severely injured.
You never know…so don’t risk it GF!
Final thoughts
All in all, I’ve arrived at three basic conclusions from my experiences with t-sex. First, masturbating yourself to orgasm alone is underrated. Second, differences in the gentiles of your lover has a lot less to do with satisfaction than good old fashioned compatibility. Finally, being in love with the transgender person you are intimate with – is the best sex of all
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