Month: July 2016

There’s more to all this than just a pair of stockings, a good push-up bra and high heels in your size, for both you and your partner. With that, let’s get personal. Whether cross-dressing is primarily a sexual kink or you’re finding yourself moving toward a physical transition, this will impact your sexuality and your sex life with your partner. An honest discussion of the nitty-gritty is something that doesn’t happen often enough. I’m working on an assumption that you want to maintain your relationship and the two of you are committed to one another. While I’m using female pronouns for the partner here, I think that most of this will apply regardless of gender.

If our eyes are a window to the soul then our face is the home of our humanity. Your face is the first thing that people see. From an early age we learn the subtle cues that facial expressions share and look to the face as the true judge of sincerity. Over any other part of your body your face contains the richest source of information on who you are and how you feel.

The face is also the first place people look to confirm any suspicions they may have about your gender. Unfortunately many crossdressers fail this test because they lack a good skin care routine.

As a man you can easily get away with poor care for your face. It’s not by chance that rugged and hansom often find themselves in the same sentence. For right or wrong, a weather and time worn face denotes strength and wisdom in a man, but neglect in a woman.